Express sympathy & respect with beautiful funeral flowers or wreaths. Variety Funerals™ offers this guide & VIP discounts. Learn about etiquette, popular flowers & cultural considerations.

Saying goodbye to a loved one is a deeply personal experience. Funeral flowers and wreaths offer a beautiful way to express sympathy and respect, while honouring the deceased. Variety Funerals™ is here to guide you through everything you need to know about sending funeral flowers.

What is the Difference Between Funeral Flowers and Sympathy Flowers?

  • Funeral Flowers: Formal arrangements like sprays, wreaths, or displays placed on or around the coffin at the funeral service or venue.
  • Sympathy Flowers: More relaxed bouquets or potted plants sent directly to the bereaved family home.

Popular Flowers for Funeral Tributes:

  • Lilies: Symbolise purity, peace, and rebirth.
  • Roses: Express love, respect, and devotion. (Red roses signify deep love)
  • Carnations: Represent comfort, sympathy, and admiration.
  • Chrysanthemums: Symbolize longevity, grief, and respect.
  • Orchids: Convey elegance, strength, and beauty.
  • Other Options: Gladiolus, Hydrangeas, Daffodils, Hyacinths, Tulips, Irises, Peace Lilies, Lilacs, Hibiscus

Sending Funeral Flowers: Etiquette and Tips

  • Unless otherwise specified, anyone can send funeral flowers.
  • Check the funeral notice for details on where and when to send flowers.
  • Contact the family or funeral director if unsure about sending flowers.
  • Consider a charitable donation in lieu of flowers, if requested by the family. Variety Funerals™ partners with Much Loved to create online memorials where families can collect donations for a chosen charity.
  • Allow at least 48 hours for flower arrangements.
  • Many florists liaise directly with funeral directors for on-time delivery.
  • There’s no set amount to spend. The gesture is more important than the cost.

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  • 15% off funeral flowers (sprays, sheaths, and wreaths) through our partner, a national florist serving England & Wales.
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Choosing Funeral Flowers: Traditional vs. Personalisation

  • Traditional choices: Lilies, Roses, Carnations, Gladioli, Tulips, Orchids, Chrysanthemums
  • Consider the deceased’s favourite colours or flowers for a personal touch.
  • White is a traditional colour, but other colours can be meaningful.

What to Write in a Funeral Card:

  • Keep it short and heartfelt.
  • Include your name for the family’s reference.
  • Examples: “With deepest sympathy,” “Forever in our hearts,” “Our thoughts are with you,” “Rest peacefully,” “We are so sorry for your loss,” “We’ll always love you.”

Cultural Considerations for Sending Flowers:

  • In some cultures, sending flowers may not be customary.
  • Consult with family members, the funeral director, or a religious leader for guidance.
  • Jewish traditions often favour food or fruit baskets, while Muslim traditions may prefer donations or simple meals for the family.

What Happens to Funeral Flowers After the Service?

  • The family may choose to keep them at the graveside, a memorial garden, or take them home.
  • Flowers may also be shared with friends and family.

Variety Funerals™ – Your Partner in Saying Goodbye

We understand the importance of honouring your loved one during this difficult time. Our compassionate team is here to answer any questions you may have about funeral arrangements, including flowers and wreaths. Contact Variety Funerals™ today to learn more about our services and how we can help you create a meaningful farewell.